…because nice matters

    Following Delight is really nice…

pooh enjoying moments

When we follow our delight our own ‘Inner Light’ shines…

then like MAGIC, your world…and our world

are a brighter and nicer place!

      Delight comes from that very special place that shines there…

deep inside of you…

There is a light in you that is yours alone.
Please let it shine…the world needs it
(it IS why We’re here!)

and…

…because nice matters

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…because nice matters

It’s nice to put ‘nice energy’ into stuff we do…

Stuff like: cooking, baking, painting, building, making, earning, yearning, and creating.

It’s really easy too…you just generate “nice” or “love” or “caring” from the Inside…then point that energy at whatever you are doing. When we put nice energy into the things we create, that energy carries forth and gets to impact every single person that comes into contact with it… like dropping a “Nice” pebble into the world pond…every single time.

Gandhi said: “You must be the change you want to see in the world.”

So please put a heaping dose of nice in each and all the things you do today…

…because nice matters

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…because nice matters

Practicing ‘being nice’ is really nice!

And like most things, once you start practicing nice, more nice seems to just start coming out all over. Just imagine…nice coming out “Willy-Nilly” all over the place…here, there, everywhere!

Silly yes…and if we’re not intentional…other stuff can pop out willy-nilly too…stuff you might even regret 🙁

So please practice your bit of “willy-nilly’ nice each day… then notice how it just comes out on its own…

…because nice matters

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…because nice matters

Making ‘being nice’ a priority each day is really nice…

Each and all of us have priorities each day, whether we think about them or not. I know there are many folks who operate on a more ‘automatic pilot’ kind of mode…and sometimes our priorities get jumbled up with other priorities…

…and although not a needle in a haystack, being nice can get left by the wayside…

Today I invite you to make ‘being nice’ a priority…or at least one of your top 3…

…because nice matters

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…because nice matters

Honesty is really nice!

It’s different than the kind of ‘nice’ that some folks call nice… you know, the kind folks use when they want the other person to just feel better? It’s honest, loving, tender… and it’s yours.

     “it is your very essence.  it is the sound of your own breath.  an idea in your head that you believe in.
      Voice… it is frighteningly powerful”   Donna Downing

When we speak our truth with tenderness we are giving honestly of ourselves to an other… 

Be you, speak your  truth with tenderness…because you matter and…

…because nice matters

…because nice matters

Managing Our Stuff can be nice…

I don’t mean ‘stuff’ like managing our bank account, time schedules or eating, although those are important too.

By “Managing Our Stuff” I mean managing our behavior AND feeling our emotions.

Did you know that some people think that JUST because they are having emotions that they have the “right” to yell, scream, kick, blame, bother, intimidate, and even hurt others? 

What a silly thing to think, unless you are a tyrant.  Emotions are emotions…they happen…behaviors are our actions that we get to manage; they’re up to us…we can feel them in silence or choose how to express them!

 Choice is what make’s us human’s truly unique…so please choose nice…

…because nice matters

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…because nice matters

 Speaking in a kind tone of voice can be really nice…

When we feel kindness inside, it vibrates through our vocal cords when we speak…it simply happens: “We sound nice” cuz we are nice.

Dogs and babies know, there’s no mistaken a delighted gurgle or a wagging tail…grown ups know too…they just don’t show their tales or gurgle the same as babies do, really.

 Kindness is an inside job…please start there and then share!

 …because nice matters.

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…because nice matters

Listening to others is really nice…

When we listen to others…I mean when we REALLY listen we become present in the now with them. We hear their words, we see them and feel their sentiment… In short, we make them and what they are saying Really Matter!

Genuine listening starts with genuinely wanting to listen, to hear, to see and to be with the other person…

If you’re not really listening, what are you doing?

When you have the chance, take the chance and really listen…because we all really matter, and…

…because nice matters

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…because nice matters

Sharing appreciation is really nice!

And sharing appreciation is really simple too…you simply recall why you appreciate the person and genuinely feel the appreciation. Then walk up to the person you appreciate, or call them on the phone, or send them an email and say: “I appreciate you because ____________.” (that’s where you tell them why)

And then notice that YOU feel even better….than you did before you started! (that’s the secret bonus…)

And when you share your appreciation, emphasis on the genuine please…

…because nice matters

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…because nice matters

Giving with tenderness is really nice.

When you think about it, anytime you speak, write, or take any action with another person or being you are ‘giving’ something. And kind words or even not so kind words when delivered with tenderness have the best chance of being received.

Really! Giving with tenderness is amazing…give it a whirl!

…because nice matters

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